Sunday, September 26, 2010

60 to 30: Single

When your friend in Facebook changes his/her status from in a relationship to single, that causes a buzz.

You see it in "petty" fights between young couples. But to see someone who's almost 50 do it, it must be something - something childish, something immature, something unexplainable.

When you're the partner of that person, what would you do? Be abrupt too - change your status from engaged to single?

Considering previous instances that this person hurt you, this Facebook status change is the ultimate cue for you - you're better off with someone who's mature enough, and caring and understanding enough, to be human enough to tell to your face - and not course it through e-mail or freaking Facebook - that he/she no longer loves you, that he/she never loved you at all, that he/she is done with you, so f*** off.

But if you still believe there is hope, you can hang in there until that person learns to acknowlege you, be content with you, and try to love you. Like how you hanged in there for four months and four days since that person dumped you - or 3 years, 2 months, and 8 days of believing that what you're sharing with this person is all worth it.

It's your choice. The best to do now is to hang in there for your dear life - not for his or hers.

I'm hanging on to my dear life ....
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