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While reading the e-book version of Steve Chandler's 100 Ways to Motivate Yourself as part of my chosen online training, a pop-up window appeared, meaning, I have a new email.
I clicked "OK" and the subject was, Customer Feedback. I sat up straight to check it. It was from my manager, sharing that the management is extending its "thanks" for a job well done on a 1-pager document I minimally edited/proofread. The email's opening had a dashing star on it, and I scrolled below to see the big boss's email stating our team did a great job for that deliverable.
I replied a simple thank you to my manager. But I can't help think about how ironic life really is:
I did far harder, far miserable work in the past but the commendations from my superiors or those who get to see my work were rare. I got used to it and it became a routine and I felt I'm stuck with a low pay for too much work that I decided to call it quits.
But for this 1-pager that I finished for about an hour, my manager was generous to share, to extend to me what the big boss thought of about the work we delivered.
At times, we sweat, we toil hard in life for a little appreciation, but appreciation never came.
We feel bad about it that we get to reduce ourselves to becoming a non-appreciative person, too.
We fail to recognize that there are those who try to make things lighter for us, and yet we push them away because we hardly appreciate ourselves.
For those who were pushed, they kept insisting themselves to the one who pushed them away, limiting their world on that person, and missing far greater opportunities awaiting them.
It's a process - a long, tedious process.
Thank you if we get appreciated.
But let's always remember that we do what we're doing because we like it, and not to score stars to get noticed.
If others don't like what we did for them, or just plainly, suddenly, don't like us anymore, let them be.
We are a star in our own right.
We don't need to bag a star from those who don't really know our truest worth.